tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2455727315715898814.post6466529354883088206..comments2023-11-02T10:27:14.063-05:00Comments on focused LINZ: "Life as I Know It"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04018431562792950209noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2455727315715898814.post-8010049742001803642010-10-20T13:35:24.703-05:002010-10-20T13:35:24.703-05:00OK, I know you didn't write this asking for ad...OK, I know you didn't write this asking for advice, but I'm going to give you some anyway, a) because I'm like that and b) you could have written this post for me, oh, about four years ago.<br /><br />First of all, I do not have it all figured out. Not by a long shot. But I do know this:<br /><br />"Am I supposed to be at a certain place by a certain time?" No. No, you are not. It's so easy to compare yourself to others. Trust me, I wasted a hell of a lot of time looking at my friends' houses and cars and promotions and thinking, "What am I doing wrong?" <br /><br />What you are supposed to be is happy. And what you are supposed to do is what makes you happy, what's worthwhile and, ideally, what makes other people's lives a little better too. Today, that might be one thing, and tomorrow, it might be another. It might even change from hour to hour. And that is A-OK.<br /><br />Because if you live your life with those three things in mind, then you WILL find your Golden Path, and everything (well, a lot of things) will fall into place. It may not happen next month or even next year, but it WILL happen. I promise. I'm living proof.<br /><br />Am I rich? HA. Am I famous? Yes, among DOZENS. Am I happy? Unbelievably. <br /><br />Am I finished? Not hardly.Mrs. Bachelor Girlhttp://www.bachelorgirl.netnoreply@blogger.com